How To Get Girls To Like You: Top 10 Ways To Become Irresistible To Women

Let's face it: Hot, interesting women can pick and choose the men they want to date. The problem is most men obsess about things they can't change about themselves like their looks, their car or their job. Truth is, none of that's changing anytime soon, so you need to maximize what you have. Once you know how to do that, you can become irresistible to any woman, even if she seems "out of your league." Check out these top 10 ways to become irresistible to women you dream about right here.

Be romantic
Romance is about more than the run-up to sex; it's also about more than buying her flowers and lighting candles. It's really about looking past the surface of a woman and letting her know that you love what you see. It's about having the imagination to spot opportunities and drop a perfect compliment at the right moment, or tell a fascinating story that shows you know what matters to her. Learn to do that, and you'll become irresistible to women in a way that makes gifts a thing of the past.

Give her the right kind of attention
Have you heard? Women like attention. But interestingly, it’s much better to hint at that kind of attention than to be over the top in demonstrating it. Example: Instead of buying flashy gifts or dropping obvious compliments, try saying: “I was thinking about you today" or "I just wanted to mention that I really like hearing your voice on the phone.” It lets her know she means enough to be in your thoughts when she's not around -- and that's a very powerful way to become irresistible to women.

Be confident
Do I really need to say it? Women are magnetically drawn to men who show no fear when going after what they want. Problem is, too many guys take "confidence" too far out of fear or insecurity and just come off as arrogant, which is not what I mean here. Women find men irresistible who see something they want, and then go after it in a fearless way without bragging or smack-talking. That kind of confidence drives women wild.

Be adventurous
Nothing is a bigger turn off to a woman than a buzz-kill, so always be open and excited about trying new things, even if it's just trying new food. And if you're passionate about extreme adventures, awesome -- use it. In fact, dare her to join you on a sunset skydive, even if there's no chance she ever will. It shows the sky's the limit with you, and danger is definitely a major turn on.

Be unpredictable
Sounds like a no-brainer. Women are drawn to men they can’t control or predict. In fact, they absolutely obsess over guys who flirt then don’t call the next day (this is how you will become irresistible to women). So make sure to shake things up, even if it's just challenging her to a race down the stairs instead of taking the elevator. Tease and mess with women in ways they didn't expect or haven't seen before. Avoid predictable routines and, above all, never, ever act like every other guy. After all, predictability is only attractive to women when it comes to choosing a husband.

Be thoughtful
Know why women like gifts? It shows you were thinking about them "off the clock," and that's a feeling women need and want. Problem is, gifts will make a woman feel the same inside whether it’s a card or a diamond. But start noticing little details about her and calling them out and she'll melt. If she's wearing a sexy new outfit or lip color, drop a compliment and she'll feel an attraction that no "gift" can make her feel for you.

Demonstrate dominance
Even if you haven't read it in a psychology book, you probably know it in your gut: Women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men. In fact, dominant males in some primate groups account for up to 75% of all the matings -- and guess what? The rest all sit home alone playing Wii. Seriously, though, the same goes for humans. Although demonstrating dominance never means being overly aggressive, pushy or rude, it does mean taking strong action to get what you want. Try it. You'll become irresistible to women.

Show some class
You don't have to be James Bond to know women are attracted to men with class. But the big news is, you don't have to drink with your pinkie in the air to show that you have class. Keep a few simple details and gestures in mind and it goes a very long way to becoming irresistible to women. For example, make sure your shoes and belt match. Learn a little about wine or foreign movies. Broaden your musical taste. Hold open doors for her. Women really notice this stuff, and it pays big dividends when it comes to attraction

Sound smart
You don't have to be a rocket scientist to sound smart. Creativity plus stuff you already know can create powerful attraction with a woman. Even if you know just enough about something to start a conversation, use it to approach a woman and you'll sound smart. Relate it to her ("Did you know the indirect lighting in here makes your eyes look even bluer?") and she'll be hooked -- guaranteed.

Be funny
I say that humor is magic, and it isn't an exaggeration. Humor is the fastest, most powerful way to become irresistible to women, even women you might consider "out of your league." Make a woman laugh, and I don't care how hot or unattainable she seems, you'll trigger positive feelings in her that she just can't ignore. So if you're naturally funny, go with it. If you're not a natural crack-up, it's time to learn. Study online. Read books. Watch live comedy shows. Do whatever it takes, because when you can make her laugh, you become irresistible.