How To Get Girls To Like You: Mastering Woman trough Her Ear

This is tips How Get Girls To Like You:

Imagine saying to a woman, “I want to speak…to the deepestpart…of who…you…truly…are.”

Sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it? Well, it sounds ridiculous to men.However, this kind of language sounds poetic and deeply erotic to women.

For purposes of seduction, the most important and immediately
accessible female sexual organ is the ear.

In order to give women the emotional experiences they fantasize about, and getting them incredibly aroused and sexually responsive fantastically quickly—in order get what you want--you’re going to learn to use words in an entirely new way.

Some of the things you will find yourself saying will sound laughable. You will do this, because you will learn for yourself that things which sound laughable and preposterous to men can be irresistibly erotic for women.

It’s like this: The ear—what you tell her--allows the rest of her to feel turned on, whether by imagery or bodily feelings.

Does this just mean saying, “I really really really love you” a lot? Nope. Saying I love you/need you/want to marry you, etc., has very very little to do with what we’re talking about.

Let’s get scientific for a moment. Researchers have performed functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging studies— the brain imaging procedures known as fMRI scans--on both women and men as they listened to language. They then compared the two groups’ results.

Is there a difference? Yep.

Basically, women use both halves of their brains to understand words. Men, on the other hand, pretty much just use the logical half. So women analyze words and speech logically, as men do—but they also plug in their emotions. Women don’t just interpret words logically; they also experience them emotionally.

Men are turned on by imagery—seeing or imagining a naked woman (or naked man, as the case may be). Women are turned on by language, which allows them to feel comfortable and aroused by the experience of seeing or imagining a naked man.

Once you understand this fact, and know how to use particular words in particular ways, turning on women becomes very, very easy—as easy and automatic as turning on a man by showing him a pretty girl as she slowly removes all her clothes.

Let’s back up a bit.

Men need only see a not-hideous naked woman to get sexually aroused. Men then want to take action, and have sex with this woman--there and then, preferably.

Women are aroused by the sight of an attractive naked man, and aroused by the thought of sex, but then other processes kick in. They consider the many, many possible consequences of sex, including pregnancy, the shattering of their existing relationships, and so forth.

They can be aroused, but then have thoughts about being aroused, which can easily neutralize this arousal. Women have feelings about feelings, and feelings about feelings about feelings, and those feelings at the top of the hierarchy—the complex feelings about the simpler feelings--are the ones that matter most, and the ones that determine whether or not they stay for that nightcap after all.

For example, a woman’s arm might be brushed by a man’s hand. The physical feeling is of warmth and friction. She might be excited by this. In addition to physically feeling warmth, and physically feeling excitement—in the sense of a quickened heart rate, focused attention, heightened muscle tone--, she might also, emotionally, feel eagerness.

Her eagerness might lead up to a feeling of lust. Her lust might lead up to a desire to “open herself” more emotionally. Her desire to open herself emotionally might lead up to a desire to open herself physically. This might lead up to a memory of the last time something like this happened. This might lead up to a sense of shame, which might lead up to guilt, which might lead up to a sense of powerlessness, which might lead up to anger. If anger is the emotion that the other feelings lead to, it’ll take precedence over “simpler” feelings, things like excitement, lust, and so forth.

Her abstract values and emotions will override the pleasures of physical stimulus, and might even make that stimulus physically unpleasant. Voila, you have a pissed-off girl.

Most men’s emotions aren’t nearly so complex. Whereas male sexuality is driven most intensely by bodily feelings, female sexuality is driven by bodily feelings as mingled with feelings about those feelings—emotions. Emotions, though rooted in the body, are shaped and guided by words.